The power of generational team coaching: How to master wisdom, patience, and effective listening

Introduction:

Certifying as a team coach using the ORSC team coaching model provided a transformative experience, particularly in coaching parent-teen pairs. Integrating Native American wisdom into the process, I discovered the importance of patience and the evolution of coaching steps through incremental progress and in-depth discussions between sessions.

Key Learnings:

1. Patience as a Cornerstone: The ORSC model emphasized the power of small, incremental steps, mirroring the wisdom of Native American traditions. The journey of coaching parents and teens proved that lasting transformation occurs through patient, steady progress.

2. Balancing Emotional Waves: Acknowledging and balancing emotional waves within family dynamics became crucial. Drawing inspiration from Native American teachings, I maintained a delicate equilibrium, creating a safe space for authentic expression and growth.

3. Listening Without Biases: Overcoming language barriers and biases in communication emerged as a key step. Listening without preconceptions allowed me to unravel the complexities of family relationships and foster breakthroughs.

4. Power of Silence: Embracing the power of silence became a valuable tool in coaching sessions. Allowing moments of quiet reflection provided families with space to process emotions and thoughts, contributing to deeper connections.

Gratitude:

I extend heartfelt gratitude to the parents and teens who allowed me to be part of their coaching journey. Your patience and openness enriched the learning experience and contributed to the authenticity of the coaching process.

Conclusion:

The ORSC certification journey, infused with Native American wisdom, has shaped my coaching approach profoundly. Patience, emotional balance, unbiased listening, and the power of silence are now integral elements of navigating the complexities of family relationships. This journey has left an indelible mark, influencing not only my role as a coach but also my understanding of the intricate dynamics inherent in family connections.